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The Constellation Work:
The Secret Key and New Concept to Overcoming Your
Resistance AND
Being the Expert You Know You CAN Be!
- Do you want to stop procrastinating?
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Do you want to be successful?
- Do you want to be seen but fear the consequences?
- Do you stay awake at night worrying?
With these questions and issues comes the
feeling that we are disconnected, or in a trance, where we can’t
figure out where this is coming from, and can’t seem to do
things any differently. We can’t figure out the cause of these
problems, and we go from practitioner to practitioner looking
for an answer.
The New Concept and secret key to breaking
through these issues and more, so you can really be seen, and
live your glory, is located within your own dysfunctional
family. How many of you “dis” your family because of the pain,
or abuse? Maybe the answers lie in looking at your
“dys”fuctional family in a different and bigger light, and
creating a new image with which to see them.
The Constellation Approach is revolutionary
work founded by Bert Hellinger.
It is a necessary tool for healing,
especially when all else has failed. It helps us make huge
shifts when we have been stuck.
Who benefits from this work?
Certainly, we all do, but especially we benefit when we
struggle with issues which are extremely relevant to ourselves.
Bert Hellinger went to South Africa 40 or 50 years ago as a
Catholic Missionary to convert the Zulu’s to his religion. He
was so impressed by the “tribe” that in fact he was the one who
was converted. This tribe of people were happy, and when
solutions needed to be found to a situation, they all met with
the shaman, healer, and all involved were consulted and everyone
contributed to the healing of the group. We don’t do that here
as a rule. In our society, if someone leaves or commits a crime,
they are disconnected and left out of the family, tribe. Bert
Hellinger discovered that is this “leaving out”, these family
secrets where an event that is too painful to remember, or a
person who hurt us or embarrassed us is too painful to remember,
we forget them. When we forget events or people, an echo of that
event or person is felt in the present generation. We feel it as
not succeeding and now knowing why, or by acting like a relative
that was forgotten by not marrying like crazy Aunt Ellen, or by
hiding out and having too much guilt to succeed, like the Jews
had to hide out to survive.
This
work is revolutionary because it deals with the souls of our
ancestors, where things at that time were not resolved. Everyone
and everything needs to be remembered. So, our concern becomes
more than with ourselves. Our concern is with our family
members, past, present, and future, and whether we know them or
not. This New Concept helps us to make what has been blind, to
become conscious. Often the solutions to problems have to do
with bringing in who was forgotten, and with making what was
unconscious, conscious. A new image replaces an old image,
gaining a greater perspective or wider vision into our
relationships.
Sometimes
we carry the burden of our ancestors as though it were ours,
blindly; without knowing. It comes with seeing how we are
blindly loyal to a certain family member by carrying their pain
or illness or depression, as if it were ours. For example: there
is the woman who rejected her mother because she perceived her
as being distant and hurtful to her. It is revealed through the
constellation that her mother was distant to protect herself
from further pain because of the lost first child which died at
birth. The daughter then can’t succeed in having a child.
There is the man who carries such sadness,
and doesn’t know why, and it is revealed that his father blamed
himself for the loss of his comrades in war.
In an instant, this new intrinsic image
replaces old ones, and compassion enters our hearts for our
parents, in this case. This is so powerful, and so true.
So, now we feel relief from our pain, and
we can experience joy, where we experienced sadness. We can
experience intimacy in relationships, we can allow ourselves to
feel good instead of pain, and we can allow ourselves to be the
ex pert we really are.
So what if you could free yourself from old
patterns and destructive behaviors?
If you are ready to learn how unconscious
loyalties keep you from achieving your hearts desires, and how
invisible patterns and destructive loyalties can be replaced
with clear insights that can profoundly impact happiness, joy,
health, and relationships, then tune into this work. There are
many facilitators around the country trained in this
revolutionary work. One such facilitator is Gail Cloud, D.C. she
is located in St. Louis, MO.,
and is available for presentations, workshops, individual and
group work.
Contact her at: 314-995-9755, and
gail@gailcloud.com to
find out more about her and her unique way of working and
combining Constellation work and Chiropractic, Body Healing. You
can also check out the web site:
www.hellinger.com;
www.hellingerpa.com,
and
www.hellinglearningcenter.com.
Here is to health, happiness, success, and
all our dreams!
One Family Mapping
Session
Cost:
$150.00
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A Family
Constellation, interactive family mapping, is
about a 60-minute group process that has the
power to heal generations of suffering and
unhappiness.
A
participant will choose others from the group
to represent certain family members, and they
are mapping out in front of us. The
representatives then experience feelings and
movements in their bodies, which show hidden
relationships and dynamics with the family
system; and they move. The facilitator attempts
to restore love and dignity and respect between
all members of the family, especially those
that have been excluded or forgotten because of
pain, humiliation, etc. As reconciliation is
achieved, then the strength and love in the
family can flow in a new
way.

Often we
work with the dynamics of pain, unhappiness,
addictions, illness, relationship struggles,
the ravages of war and other dysfunctions we
carry with us, unintentionally, to bring more
wholeness and lightness to ourselves and our
children.
Most of us will receive a
family mapping experience, image, which
bypasses our usual thought processes and allows
us to see beyond the stories we tell of our
family to a greater perspective and one which
shows hidden loyalties and dynamics in our
families.
This
can change, in an instant, years of past
suffering
Mark
Wolynn, the Director of The Hellinger Institute
of Western Pennsylvania, and a Trainer in the
field of this work, teaches four day Intensives
in levels 1 through 5, designed to provide a
working knowledge of the principles, and
practical aspects and applications of Bert
Hellinger’s Approach. Students learn to explore
their personal as well as their client’s most
complex and difficult issues. They will also
learn to expand the traditional family tree to
include those members whose exclusion or
rejection has caused discord in the system.
Other topics include Orders of Precedence, the
3 levels of conscience, what creates bonding
and belonging in the system, systemic messages,
that keep us mired in destructive patterns, and
more.
Upon
completion, students will be able to apply this
practice in their own practices with groups,
couples, and individuals. By attending any 5 of
the 4-day modules offered, students will
receive a certificate of
completion!
Contact Gail to set up your
individual session,
or to discuss how to work with her NOW,
at 314-995-9755, or email,
gail@gailcloud.com
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